With her permission:
My apologies for my comments made in my friend's LJ. The post was public and I did not exercise discretion, temporarily forgetting the broader scope of public posts. As the post has been removed, I cannot issue this apology in the forum in which it was demanded. I hope this missive expresses the olive branch I extend to you.
You have my apologies.
As I said to her, apology happily accepted.
(BTW, there's some good stuff in adelheide's LJ, including a really good analysis of "Jus in Bello," the most recent Supernatural episode.....)