We are still getting married this month. We have a lot of work to do, and it's going to take a very long time, but it's worth the fight. I love her more than I can say, and I've treated her appallingly.
I'm sick and it's waaaaaaaaaaaaaay past time I started healing that wound (he says, mixing the metaphor a bit).
Thanks to everyone who e-mailed me. You're good people.
Edited to add: I didn't intend to have comments enabled on this post, but by the time I realized it, I'd gotten several comments, and was having trouble getting online with consistency on my parents' wireless network. While I truly appreciate the support, both here and in e-mail, I'm disabling comments for the time being.