terri_osborne started moving stuff out of her office that I may convert it to my bedroom/office. With luck, she'll get most of it out today, and then I can spend the week putting stuff in. I have measured everything to make sure it'll all fit (it will, with room to spare), and I think it'll actually be a nice space to live in.
We had a long chat last night that was, I think, good for both of us. This is what neither of us wants, but it's what we both need. We're kinda awkward around each other right now, at least some of the time, and it's going to take a while to adjust to the new paradigm.
But we're managing. Thanks to everyone who's sent good wishes. It's appreciated.